Tony. probably not. What has happened is someone has gotten their e-mail address, easy to make it look like it came from someone else, just put that e-mail address in your client as the FROM: and as your name.
Where did someone get their e-mail address, one of 3 ways usually...
1) They gave some mailing list or company their e-mail address and it was SOLD... and re-sold, and re-sold...
2) They replied back to a 'click here to remove my e-mail address' and it was captured....
3) They joined a newsgroup and their e-mail address was 'scrapped' off of the newsgroup...
However I think you said people YOU send e-mail to are sending you spam... well, they could be infected, or they forwarded your e-mail onto someone who was infected or whoever got the e-mail did it...
Don't rule out a 'break-in' on a computer where you did give your e-mail address.
Matter of fact, our ISP might have had just such a thing happen recently. At least 3 people I know on that ISP had to change their PW's as their e-mail was compromised. No 'damage' (that they know of), just SPAM going out to friends. The 3 people are not related or even know each other.
This is the way it is.
I keep getting 'crap' and I 'report it' to my ISP... never gets stopped. Some isn't that easy to trace I guess. However, if I can create a simple filter based on the RECEIVED FROM: address, why can't they?
That is the stuff I call 'annoying' too.
Irv S.